WHAT DOES THE PASTOR SAY IN RESPONSE TO WHY?
I have carefully phrased my topic. Not if but when. Garrison Keilor, an
American storyteller, a modern Mark Twain, in one of his many stories
observes that if you have not yet had bad luck, don’t feel left out. It will surely come. While I prefer a different word than luck, I
agree with his conclusion. Bad things
happen to all people, even to good people and ordinarily one does not need to
wait long.
When bad things happen to bad people we may
feel some sympathy, but underneath we often conclude they had it coming. We use the analogy of farming, whether the
aphoristic “sowing wild oats” or the biblical statement that “you reap whatever
you sow.”[1]
It is when bad things happen to good people
that we struggle. It is at such times
that the question WHY arises. We learn
quickly in life that suffering is indiscriminate and strikes all, whether they
be good or bad. Although health and
wealth gospel people will challenge this assertion, empirical data support it.
Now we can play games with this whole issue
and thus dismiss its significance, as did the three comforters in Job, by
denying his goodness, alleging[2]
and ultimately cataloging his sins which they claimed produced his sufferings.[3] There must be hidden or secret sin which has
finally overtaken him, or his suffering is due to the sins of his children,[4]
or that the sins of his youth are finally catching up with him.[5]
Clearly such modern comforters abound who
attribute or attempt to attribute
all suffering to sinful thoughts, words, or deeds. By denying that the suffering are
good, by invoking “all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God”[6] they think
that at least they minimize the problem and at best they eliminate
it. But thinking and observing persons
are not satisfied with such tactics.
People who are good do suffer.
We simply do not resolve the issue by
scrutinizing closely for unrecognized sins for we are still confronted with the
question of divine justice relative to commensurate suffering. Job seems quite willing to concede some
failure but challenges any concept of commensurate suffering.[7] In crass terms did he do enough bad things
to lose ten children, all of his wealth, and ultimately even his health?
The issue of innocent suffering is not
resolved by denying goodness and investigative efforts to establish guilt.
Rabbi Kushner observes:
Virtually every meaningful conversation
I have
ever had with people on the subject of God and religion
has either started with this question [why do the righteous
suffer?], or gotten around to it before long….The misfor-
tunes of good people are not only a problem to the people
who suffer and to their families, they are a problem to
everyone who wants to believe in a just and fair and
livable world.[8]
I might parenthetically note here that even
if the suffering seems somehow deserved, the pastor must still address it and seek
to help the sufferer. In fact, such
situations provide opportunity for the pastor to minister to some who under
more favorable circumstances would not turn to the church. But I will not pursue this further since the
primary focus of my presentation is the suffering of the righteous.
However, suffering resulting in a potential
open door for ministry, leads to another approach that some use to minimize or
eliminate the enigma. Once again it is
an assault on an adjective for not only is the adjective GOOD qualifying people
challenged but also the adjective BAD modifying things. Strange that any would attempt such an
approach but they do. The argument is
that since good can come from suffering ultimately suffering must be good.
Now I will not deny that
suffering can be instrumental in our development.
Philosophers call it soul making.
We are created in God’s image but we need to move into his likeness and
the way we do that is through suffering.
In fact, suffering is the only way and hence we should accept our
suffering and allow it to shape us. In
more popular parlance “one can see further through a teardrop than through a
telescope.”
But even though bad things
sometimes result in good, this does not change the fact that suffering must be
viewed as physical evil. Cancer is
still cancer. My Jewish friends remind
me that no matter how much good some may claim resulted from the Holocaust, the
reality remains that millions of Jews died, creating untold anguish.
The following exchange
between Lieutenant Shiesskopf’s wife and Yossarian in Catch 22
articulates the difficulty of making suffering good.
“Good God, how much
reverence can you have for a
Supreme Being who finds it necessary to
include tooth
decay in His divine system of creation?
Why in the world
did He ever create pain?”
“Pain?” Lieutenant
Shiesskopf’s wife pounced upon
the word
victoriously. “Pain is a useful
symptom. Pain is
a warning
to us of bodily dangers.”
“And who created the dangers?” Yossarian demanded.
“Why couldn’t He have
used a doorbell to notify us, or one
of His celestial
choirs? Or a system of blue-and-red
neon
tubes right in the
middle of each person’s forehead?”
“People would
certainly look silly walking around
with red neon tubes in
the middle of their foreheads.”
“They certainly
look beautiful now writhing in
agony, don’t they?”[9]
This is not to deny that
suffering such as Christ’s can be exemplary in that it is redemptive[10]
and that as Paul observes we enter into and complete that suffering for the
sake of the church.[11] But this still does not change the nature
and character of suffering. It is still
physical evil and Christ died to destroy it.
So we must not play games with
the reality of innocent suffering by resorting to semantics. Bad things do happen to good people.
Such is the thrust of Job in
the Old Testament and I Peter in the New
Testament.
The book of I Peter was
directed to believers who were suffering and struggling with the why of
it. A form of the word suffer appears
16 times in this book.
This text emphasizes that
such suffering does not reflect on the character of the believer. Not all suffering is deserved. Their suffering was not to be seen as “something
strange”,[12] as an
anomaly, but rather something that believers can and will experience. The suffering of Christ are cited as
evidence that suffering can and does happen to the faithful.[13]
So rather than deny
suffering, we must expect it and enter into it. In the words of Willimon:
Fidelity is not a matter
of efficiency, results, or success,
but rather a matter of
congruence with the way Jesus
lived and died….The cross keeps judging our lapses
into a theology of
glory, keeps setting before us the
narrow way of a
suffering God, keeps mocking our
clerical lapses whereby
we substitute worldly wisdom
for gospel
foolishness. The cross unmasks the evil
behind worldly standards
of success and achievement.[14]
But by far the best biblical
book for addressing the suffering of the righteous is the book of Job. Andersen’s characterization of the man Job
effectively presents and describes Job’s goodness:
Job was as
faultless as a man can be. He is not
Everyman; he is
unique….as such he presents the case of
the innocent sufferer in
what is almost its acutest form.
In one Life
only is Job excelled, in both innocence and
grief: in
Jesus, who sinned not at all, but who endured
the greatest
agony of any man.[15]
While time does not permit a detailed
consideration of Job’s righteousness, the fact of it is quite apparent. Even a casual reading of the text will show
it. His goodness is described in
universal terms. He was blameless
(‘complete’) and upright (‘straight’).
These two words used together indicate thorough rectitude.[16] The third quality (‘feared God’) suggests
that Job was religious, devout. The
final quality (‘shunned evil’) indicates a deliberate rejection of evil and
thus means ‘moral’.
So critical is Job’s
righteousness that the writer presents it in the opening verse of the book,
then has God attest to it (1:8; 2:3), and also the wife of Job (2:9). Even Satan does not challenge it. The significance of this has already been
noted. If Job can be shown to deserve
his sufferings, as his friends insist, the book loses its meaning and
purpose. In the words of Andersen: “The book of Job loses its point if the
righteousness of Job is not taken as genuine.”[17]
But this establishment and
assertion of Job’s goodness brings us back to the question of why. Why does the innocent Job and others like
him suffer? What is the answer? Atkinson notes our obsession with finding
answers:
Much of our modern
world is concerned with finding
answers. Our technological mentality sees the world
as
something we can
understand and control. We tend to see
life in terms of
questions which need answering, in terms
of problems which need
solving; in terms of causes and
effects.[18]
Newbigin challenges this
common view:
Today we are
becoming sceptical about this approach.
We are coming to see
that there are ‘problems’ in human
life for which there are
no ‘solutions’. The question has to
be asked whether we do
not need new models for under-
standing our human
situation.[19]
New models? Why even this ancient book of Job serves to
remind us that there are many problems which occasion many questions for which
there are no answers, at least no easy answers. In the words of Atkinson:
There is precious
little that will count in the way
of an ‘answer’ as we
usually understand that term. We
are face to face with a good and godly man who suffers –
suffers intolerably and
seemingly endlessly. He catches
us up into his pain,
into his misery, into the injustice of
it all. He envelops us in his plea to God to tell
him what
on earth, or what in
hell, is going on.[20]
But for our consideration
today I am most concerned with Atkinson’s per-
ceptive and penetrating assessment of our pastoral preaching and
ministry in the light of the book of Job which “brings us to the edge” of
failure:
It confronts with
failure, and with suffering for which
there is no explanation. It faces us with the inadequacy of
ministry;
with the inappropriateness of some forms of preach-
ing; with a God who
seems silent, callous, unfair and remote.
We are forced to rethink
our prejudices; rethink our theology;
rethink the meaning of
pastoral care in the face of injustice
and suffering; rethink
what we say about God. And though
at the end of the day,
the book brings us back to the all-
sufficiency of divine
grace….there is a long, painful and
arduous path to climb
before we hear the Lord speaking, as
he does at the end of
the book, from the whirlwind.[21]
Rather than deny or qualify
human pain we need to address it, as awful as it might be, in honesty and
integrity. Here, as pastors, we can
learn from the three comforters who present us with both a negative and
positive model.[22]
On the positive side they
show up with the intention of consoling and comforting Job.[23] They entered into his suffering by way of
the traditional gestures of grief: they wept, tore their robes, and poured dust
on their head.[24] Then they sat on the ground with him; not
above him, not aloof, but they sat where he sat. Most significantly they were silent, not saying a word.[25]
Presence! Stanley Haverwas has picked up on this in
the title of his 1988 book, Suffering Presence: Theological Reflections on
Medicine, the Mentally
Handicapped and the Church.[26]
Dykstra expresses it this
way:
Presence is a
service of vulnerability. To be
present to others is to put oneself in
the position of
being vulnerable to what they are vulnerable to, and
of being vulnerable to
them. It means being willing
to suffer what the other
suffers, and to go with the
sufferer in his or her own
suffering. This is different
from trying to become the
sufferer. Presence does
not involve taking another’s
place. That would be
demeaning. It would suggest, ‘I can take your suf-
fering better than you can,
so move aside; I will
replace you.’ Instead, presence involves exposing
oneself to what the sufferer
is exposed to, and being
with the other in that
vulnerability.[27]
Silence! At times there is nothing to be said and
silence can be more eloquent than words and more profound than brilliance. I remember hearing Rabbi Kushner say that
early in his ministry, when visiting a hurting person and hearing the question
WHY, he believed they wanted a theological answer, that which he had learned in
seminary. So he would rattle off a 15
minute theological answer. But as a
wiser and more mature rabbi, he learned that people are not asking for theology
but support and love.
On the negative side the
three comforters are more concerned with their theology. They see Job as a threat to their dogmatic
theology. They arrive with their answer
and are insisting that Job fit that answer.
They are belief centered, rather than people centered. Job is expendable; their theology is
not. Thus Job pleads with them to look
at him; to be occupied with him rather than their pet ideas.[28]
Such a contrived and
impersonal approach causes Job to lash out and to
compare these comforters to a wadi which promises relief to a thirsty
and expectant caravan but disappoints them because of its dryness.[29]
At this point Job makes a
pronouncement that all pastors need to hear:
“Those who withhold kindness from a friend forsake the fear of the
almighty.”[30] While the pastor must be prophetic at times,
thundering the word of God, times of intense suffering call for a more priestly
approach in which the pastor as a friend ministers to the sufferer. Here the words of Rabbi Kushner are helpful:
Job needed sympathy more than he needed advice,
even good and correct
advice. There would be a time
and place for that
later. He needed compassion, the sense
that others felt his pain
with him, more than he needed
learned theological
explanations about God’s ways. He
needed physical comforting,
people sharing their strength
with him, holding him rather
than scolding him.
He needed friends who would permit him to be
angry, to cry and to scream,
much more than he needed
friends who would urge him
to be an example of patience
and piety to others.[31]
In conclusion note these
words of Atkinson:
We need to be
prepared to be confronted, as Job’s
friends were, with the
horror of some human pain. We
may need to let our
defences down in a way that his
friends found hard to
do, and allow ourselves to hear
Job questioning God,
despairing at the way God runs
the world. May God help us stick with it in a way that
his friends could
not. They could not live with the
human suffering which
Job embodied. They had to
search for answers. They were uncomfortable when
face to face with that
which defied the logic of their
own theological
position. They had to proclaim the
truth. They insisted on treating suffering only as
a
problem to be solved,
rather than being willing to
cope with the
uncertainty of facing its mystery. And
they received a pretty
sharp word from the Lord at
the end of the day for
doing so. This book asks us
to walk with Job
right through the depths of his
struggle, open to
wherever he takes us, for only so
will we catch the
significance of the Lord’s gra-
cious voice at the story’s
end.[32]
[1] Galatians 6:7 Eliphaz also uses this analogy in his first speech “As I have seen, those who plow iniquity and sow trouble reap the same.” Job 4:8. All scriptural citations in this paper are from the NRSV.
[2] Job 11:4, 15:5-6.
[3] Job 22:5-11.
[4] The comforters also attribute his children’s death to Job’s sins. Job 5:4, 15:30; 20:10.
[5] Even Job questions the relationship between his present sufferings and the iniquities of his youth. Job 13:26.
[6] Romans 3:23.
[7] Job 6:2-3.