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Incoming students are welcome to let us know if you have a
suggestion for your host family experience (if you want to be
the only student with a host family, if you prefer to be with a
host family that has several intercultural students, if you want
a family with or without young kids, if you prefer to be with a
family who has overseas living experience, etc.)
What do I do with my host family?
That is up to your host family and yourself. Some of the more common
activities are listed above. Some families are
more involved than others, and some students prefer to be more
involved than others. You are welcome to communicate with your
host family the level of involvement and participation you
desire. Each family understands that being here is a new, and
sometimes overwhelming experience. They simply want to help make
your college experience a good one by serving as a temporary
home away from home.
What should I know about my host family?
Our hope is that you will get to know them well while you are
here at Houghton. There are a few things you should know,
however, about their responsibilities toward you. Host families
are NOT expected to house you during school breaks. It is your
responsibility to find housing during the times that the
residence halls are closed. They are also not expected to always
take the initiative to get together. Many host families will be
proactive in inviting you to their house or to family events,
and this is great. However, most families expect you to take
some initiative in keeping in touch with them as well. Your
family is excited to host you and want you to feel at home with
them. Feel free to call or email them, invite them to events on
campus, and ask what they are doing next weekend or to see if
you can come over sometime that week.
What if I don't get along with my host family?
No problem. While we try to structure the program in order to
pair students and families in such a way as to foster good and
growing relationships, we understand that sometimes this is just
not the case. If for any reason you want to get out of the host
family program or prefer to switch to a new family, just come by
the ISPO office and we'll talk about your options.
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